Title: • I am a 19-year old girl. I have a heavy hair growth on my cleavage and stomach. In fact the situation has worsened since I used a razor once. It is very embarrassing and I am losing my self-confidence. Should I get a laser treatment done? Is it safe? Ev
Question:- • I am a 19-year old girl. I have a heavy hair growth on my cleavage and stomach. In fact the situation has worsened since I used a razor once. It is very embarrassing and I am losing my self-confidence. Should I get a laser treatment done? Is it safe? Even my periods are irregular. Are these hormonal problems? Can they be treated? Please advice.
Answer:- Please consult an endocrinologist who will advise you further. All major hospitals have one on the staff.
Title: I like to fantasise about being raped by someone other than my boyfriend. My boyfriend and I share a normal sexual relationship, but still fantasy fascinates me and gives me an instant high. I suppose all women enjoy this fantasy. Can such a fantasy be harmful in any way?
Question:- I like to fantasise about being raped by someone other than my boyfriend. My boyfriend and I share a normal sexual relationship, but still fantasy fascinates me and gives me an instant high. I suppose all women enjoy this fantasy. Can such a fantasy be harmful in any way?
Answer:- It is true there are some women who at some point or the other in their lives carry the fantasy of being taken sexually or being swept off their feet. These fantasies are common but not universal. This idea is played up a lot by some western fiction and pornographic literature. It is important to note that there is a gret difference between a self-projected fantasy and an actul rape. Fantasies are our own cretion, and thus we have control over it. Itcan be a great turn on for some, but it is not the relity. In reality, rape is a violent act, forced and unwarned, over which a victim has no control at all very often it is seen that a fantasy is necessary when there is a lack of emotional intimacy between partners and sex is merely a physical activity. Therefore, both you and your boyfriend need to deeply examine your relationship, either on your own individually, or with the help of a good counsellor, to determine what can be done to enhance the emotional intimacy so that such fantasies are not required.
Title: I am a 31- year- old married man with a 25-year-old beautiful wife. We have been married for two and half year now. But for the last one year I don’t feel like having sex with her. She too has put on a lot of weight. I often dream of having sex with other
Question:- I am a 31- year- old married man with a 25-year-old beautiful wife. We have been married for two and half year now. But for the last one year I don’t feel like having sex with her. She too has put on a lot of weight. I often dream of having sex with other, but never with her. But it’s also true that I love her more than anything in this world. Even if we do have sex in 15-20 days, I can’t continue for more than five minutes and thereby can’t give her complete satisfaction. As a result, our married life gradually hitting the rocks. I have already seen a doctor and done tests, but no clinical anomalies have been detected. May be I suffer from erectile dysfunction. Please help.
Answer:- Please go with her for walks and other exercises, and request her to reduce her weight. Your aspirations have been basically affected. Five minutes of intercourse, however, is a very good average. You need to have sex more frequently with a lot of foreplay-digitally stimulate the genital till she reaches orgasm. Then, she may get it a second time at intercourse. This will help you stop worrying and regain your desire.
Title: I am 28-year-old man. I got married six months ago. My wife, who’s 22 year old, say no to sex because she say she never get sexually aroused even when have foreplay. When I did try to have intercourse, she experienced a lot of pain and so doesn’t want to
Question:- I am 28-year-old man. I got married six months ago. My wife, who’s 22 year old, say no to sex because she say she never get sexually aroused even when have foreplay. When I did try to have intercourse, she experienced a lot of pain and so doesn’t want to try it again. I am very disturbed with my sex life. Please suggest how to improve this situation. Does she need some counseling or is there a drug which can stimulate her sexual feelings? Please advice.
Answer:- Maybe she needs better education about sex and a review of her attitudes, for which a counselor can help her. The pain she experiences could be a major cause. Why not take her to a gynecologist who can prescribe an anaesthetic gel which can dull the pain. Once she learns more about sex, she will understand things better.
Title: I am 37-year-old married woman. I have two teenage children. I have four small fibroids in my uterus. I have been advised hysterectomy by my gynaecologist. I wish to know that will hysterectomy operation affect my sex life? Is it possible for a woman to e
Question:- I am 37-year-old married woman. I have two teenage children. I have four small fibroids in my uterus. I have been advised hysterectomy by my gynaecologist. I wish to know that will hysterectomy operation affect my sex life? Is it possible for a woman to enjoy sexual intercourse and experience orgasm after removal of uterus?
Answer:- The uterus has no role to play in the sexual act. It does not have neuroreceptors sensitive to sexual stimuli. Therefore removal of the uterus will not hamper your sexual pleasure. During the sexual act, it is the clitoris and the outer 1/3rd of the vagina that can perceive pleasurable sexual stimuli, and they remain untouched in a Hysterectomy operation. The uterus also does not hamper the pleasure of the male partner, as the length and width of vagina remains unaffected.
The ovaries are not removed in most of the hysterectomy operations. In your case they will not be removed. It is the hormones secreted in the ovaries that determine your feminine qualities and instincts. Therefore you will have a perfectly normal sex life after this operation.
Title: I would like to know how one contracts AIDS. Kindly explain to me in simple words.
Question:- I would like to know how one contracts AIDS. Kindly explain to me in simple words.
Answer:- The HIV virus resides in the blood, saliva, seminal fluid and vaginal discharge of an infected person. It can be carried on to another person through blood transfusion, sexual intercourse – sometimes oral sex, and use infected needles – particularly common with drug addicts. Sex is the most common way of contracting AIDS, which is why safe sex is advisable.
Title: I am a 21-year-old guy. I have been masturbating for the last eight years. But I stopped two months back when I discovered some powder like accumulation close to the lower part my penis. What should I do now?
Question:- I am a 21-year-old guy. I have been masturbating for the last eight years. But I stopped two months back when I discovered some powder like accumulation close to the lower part my penis. What should I do now?
Answer:- It is the naturally excreted wax-like substance called smegma that has accumulated beneath your foreskin. Slip back your foreskin and clean the area regularly.
Title: I am 22-year-old married man. I got married a year ago. We enjoy a good sex life. My only concern is that we have not enjoyed penetrative sex till date as my wife experience immense pain whenever I try to penetrate her vagina. We both masturbate during fo
Question:- I am 22-year-old married man. I got married a year ago. We enjoy a good sex life. My only concern is that we have not enjoyed penetrative sex till date as my wife experience immense pain whenever I try to penetrate her vagina. We both masturbate during foreplay to satisfy ourselves. I don’t use a condom since I cannot enjoy with it on. I recently heard on some contraception pills for women. Are these pills safe?
Answer:- Buy a tube of xylocaine gel 2% and apply a very small amount in and around her vagina. Wipe it off after 15 minutes. Begin with foreplay and try to penetrate when she is aroused. She will not feel the pain. Please visit a gynaecologist to educate yourself or read a good book. I would like to add that using a condom will help avoid an unwanted pregnancy.
Title: I am 19-year-old boy. I have been masturbating for the last six years. But in the last six months I stopped masturbating regularly because I have been passing blood along with the seminal fluid while ejaculating. Can this affect my sex life later? Please
Question:- I am 19-year-old boy. I have been masturbating for the last six years. But in the last six months I stopped masturbating regularly because I have been passing blood along with the seminal fluid while ejaculating. Can this affect my sex life later? Please suggest a remedy.
Answer:- Please have your semen and urine examined by a pathologist as soon as possible. And then consult an urologist. It could be serious.
Title: I am a 24-year-old girl. I have sex wit my fiancé regularly but sometimes I feel dry. For example, if I have sex in the middle of the night then I am often dry in the morning. What should I do?
Question:- I am a 24-year-old girl. I have sex wit my fiancé regularly but sometimes I feel dry. For example, if I have sex in the middle of the night then I am often dry in the morning. What should I do?
Answer:- You could ask him to arouse you again through foreplay. You can use your saliva or other water-based lubricants available at the chemist to rid the dryness.
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